]D,ana maoM kana–dd-

— dIipka jaaoSaI

[na kiznaa[yaaoM ko baaro maoM maorI Da@Tr ima~ nao mah%vapUNa- sauJaava idyao. [naka palana krto hue hvaa[- ]D,anaaoM maoM kana sao sMabMaiQat AsauivaQaaAaoM sao bacaa jaa sakta hO.

kana–dd- ka karNa

]D,ana ko samaya kana maoM haonao vaalaI AsauivaQaa ka mau#ya karNa hO kana ko maQya Baaga pr pD,nao vaalaa dbaava. kana ka yah maQya Baaga hvaa BarI baMd gaufa jaOsaa haota hO. [sa gaufa maoM isqat hvaa ka dbaava hmaaro vaatavarNa kI hvaa ko dbaava ko saaqa saMtulana banaata hO. yah samBava haota hO yausTaiSayana T\yaUba Wara jaao kana ko maQya Baaga kao naak ko ipClao ihssao kao jaaoD,o rKtI hO. Agar kana kI gaufa AaOr vaatavarNa ko 

jaba hma inagalato hOM yaa jamha[- ³]baasaI´ laoto hOM¸ yah T\yaUba KulatI hO AaOr hvaa kao kana ko maQyaBaaga maoM hlkI saI Aavaaj,a ko saaqa Andr jaanao dotI hO. ³yah Aap [sa samaya BaI kr ko doK sakto hOM´ [sa karNa kana ko Andr AaOr baahr ka dbaava ek jaOsaa rhta hO.

hvaa[- ]D,ana maoM jahaja, kI badlatI hu[- }Mcaa[- ko Anausaar baahr ka dbaava toj,a rFtar sao badlata hO¸ ivaSaoYa $p sao jaba hvaa[- jahaja ]trnaovaalaa haota hO. eosao samaya maoM yausTaiSayana T\yaUba kana kI hvaa ko dbaava kao baar–baar toja,I ko saaqa baahrI hvaa ko dbaava ko saaqa saMtuilat krtI hO. kana kI gaufa maoM BaItr AaOr baahr sao pD,nnao vaalao ivaprIt dbaavaaoM ko karNa AjaIba saI Aavaaj,aoM AatI hOM. eosao samaya inagalanao kI p`iËyaa krnao sao dbaava kao saMtuilat krnao maoM madd imalatI hO.

jaba yausTaiSayana T\yaUba Apnaa kama zIk sao nahIM kr patI AaOr dbaava ka saMtulana zIk nahIM banata tao maoM dd- yaa kana band haonao ka Ahsaasa haota hO.

dd- sao bacanao ko ]paya

inamnailaiKt nausKo hvaa[- ]D,anaaoM kao sauKdayak banaa sakto hOM :

• inagalanao kI p`iËyaa yausTaiSayana T\yaUba kao Kaolanao vaalaI maaMsapoiSayaaoM kao jagaayao rKtI hO. cyau[Mgama yaa poprimaMT maMuh maoM rK ]saka maIza rsa baar baar inagalanao kI iËyaa hvaa dbaava samataola rKnao maoM maddgaar saaibat haogaI.
• jamha[- laonaa BaI ]tnaa hI fayadomaMd hOM laoikna p`%yaxa$p maoM yah [tnaa samBava nahIM hao pata.
• hvaa[- jahaja ko ]trto samaya jahaM tk hao sako¸ saaoyaoM nahIM¸ jaagato rhoM @yaaoMika naIMd maoM inagalanao kI iËyaa krnaa saMBava nahIMM.
• jaba inagalanao yaa jamha[- laonao sao kama na banao tao naak kao dao ]MgailayaaoM sao band kr maMuh sao gaubbaara fulaanao kI trh gaalaaoM kao fulaaeM. jyaada jaaor naa doM. jaba Aap zk\ saI Aavaaj,a saunaoM tao samaiJayao Aap jaIt gayao. Aapkao Saayad hvaa[- jahaja ]trnao ko samaya yah 2–3 baar krnaa pD,o.

CaoTo baccaaoM ko ilayao

CaoTo baccao svayaM Aapnao kanaaoM kao Kaolao rKnao maoM madd nahIM kr sakto. yaid vao saao rho hOM tao ]nakI inagalanao kI p`iËyaa baMd rhtI hO¸ ijasakI vajah sao yausTaiSayana T\yaUba ka kaya- band rhta hO. [sako karNa dbaava ka AsaMtulana banaa rhta hO AaOr kana baMd haonaa yaa dd- Sau$ hao jaata hO. dUQa kI baaotla caUsato rhnao¸ causanaI maMuh maoM rKnao yaa stnapana krto hue yaUsTaiSayana T\yaUba zIk sao kama krtI hO AaOr vao svasqa AnauBava krto hOM. qaaoD,o baD,o baccao cyaU[Mgama yaa maIzI gaaoilayaaM caUsa sakto hOM. 

]D,ana maoM sadI-–j,aukama 

yaa~I kao yaid sadI-–j,aukama hO tao ]D,ana maoM [sako baZ,nao kI saMBaavanaa rhtI hO. saa[nasa¸ naak sao saMbaMiQat saMËmaNa yaa bauKar ko samaya hvaa[- yaa~a krnaa pID,adayak hao sakta hO.
naak baMd haonao sao samaIp hI isqat yausTaiSayana T\yaUba BaI band hao saktI hO ijasa vajah sao kana ka dbaava saMtuilat hao nahIM pata. [sasao vahaM SaUnya bana jaata hO AaOr kana ka pda- AMdr kI Aaor iKMca jaata hO. eosaI Avasqaa maoM saunaa[- donaa kma hao jaata hO. kBaI kBaI kana kI AMdr kI sath pr haonao vaalaa d`va [sa SaUnya maoM Aa jaata hO ijasao 'eyarao–AaoTITIsa' khto hOM ijasako [laaj,a ko ilayao Da^@Tr ko pasa BaI jaanaa pD,ta hO. kana pr hvaa ka dbaava saMtuilat krnao ko ilayao ja$rt pD,nao pr vah d`va KIMcakr inakalanaa BaI pD, sakta hO. [sailayao yaid Aapkao sadI-–jaukama yaa naak kI kao[- BaI tklaIf hOM tao hvaa[- yaa~a sqaigat krnaa yaa itiqa baZ,a donaa ]icat haogaa.

@yaa dvaaeM BaI laI jaa saktI hOM Æ

iDkaMjaosTMT gaaoilayaaM yaa naak ko ilayao sp`o hvaa[- jahaja ]trnao sao ek GaMTa phlao laonaa laaBadayak hao sakta hO. [sao laonao sao naak kI AMd$naI sath saMkiucat haogaI AaOr yausTaiSayana T\yaUba ka kaya- sahI rKnao maoM madd imalaogaI.

naak kI tklaIfaoM maoM safr Sau$ krnaosao phlao dvaa[yaaM laonaa Sau$ kr donaa caaihyao. ijanhoM dmaa¸ idla kI baImaarI¸ r>caap yaa qaayara[D jaOsaI baImaarI hO vao BaI Da@Tr kI salaah sao ]D,ana ko ilayao dvaa[yaaM lao sakto hOM.

Ant maoM —
hvaa[- safr ka BarpUr Aanand laoMÑ ja$rI dvaaAaoM ka Qyaana rKoM¸ KaeM¸ pIeM¸ inagalaoM yaa jamha[-M laoM taik Aapko kana hvaa[- jahaja caZ,to ]trto samaya sahI rhoMÑ

—dIipka jaaoSaI